友達以上, 恋人未满 のSex Affair Relationship

This topic sound interesting to me and i had come across in this situation ! Don't you agree this situation always happen around us ?? Or may be you has been thru this situation before??

Some of you might not understand what mean by 友達以上, 恋人未满 .

友達以上, 恋人未满 is origin from Japan , it's mean the relationship is more than a friend but yet not lovers relationship

Another word can be use with same meaning is  暧昧 = Ambiguous.

We just human being ~ we control by feeling, and this caused  友達以上, 恋人未满 appear.

 If 友達以上, 恋人未满 relationship is having date as couple for movie or dinner , it's common.
But what if it's happen turn into Sex Affair Relation ?? Does it still consider as 友達以上, 恋人未满 relationship??

For my points of view , having 友達以上, 恋人未满 のSex Affair Relation is totally different from Bed Partner.


Bed Partner can be any stranger that you just meet from club ? from some party?
But 友達以上, 恋人未满 のSex Affair Relation is you knowing him ( her ) was quite some while, he(she ) might be your good friends or closed friends.

I've post a Question on all my Facebook Friend's Wall :
Topic : 友达以上， 恋人未满のSex Affair Relationship
For Male:
1. How does this often happen to you ??
2. How often both of you acting like a couple ?
3. Are you a good sex partner to her ( explain the reason )
4. What she did is the most irritated you after sexual intercourse ??

and  
For Female :
1. Have this ever happen to u ??
2. Are Both of you act like a couple while dating ?
3. Is him a good sex partner to you ?( explain why he is not good sex partner ) 
4. What you hate the most after having sexual intercourse with him ??

Unfortunately, the replied is just a few. May be Malaysians / Singaporean ( who in my friend list ) is not really that open minded ? Perhaps they are just shy to reply ? Or may be their can't take ( disagree / not accepted ) this type of relationship?


Thanks to those who replied it with your precious time.


The answer shows is Girls can accept this type relationship much more than Guys. 30% from the answer is falling into 友达以上， 恋人未满 のSex Affair Relationship. Sadly only 10% of guys will act like couple while date with ladies. Come On Guys, although just friends, please show your do concern your date , be gentlemen all the time while during date .

Seriously , I do love this type of relationship, it's between black and white , no burden , no commitment .

Honestly , i been thru this relationship once while i still working in Penang , and Karl was great, sunshine guy.  Karl were such an angel come into my life after i break off with my boyfriend. He surely by my side whenever i need help. Movie / Dinner / Hugs / Kisses ?? Yeah , he gave me a beautiful Penang memories.
Sometimes, he came over my condo and we watching movie together while i lay on him, a smoothies given from him surprising me like a couple during movie time or cooking time. Although we just friend and we did not wanted to had more than it. We enjoyed all the time being together until i met my ex jerk husband.

Seriously , i don't mind to go wild with him if we could make it happen ( there lots of chance we can making out ) , but we can't , due he is somebody tied up with his religions . I miss his eye and his hugs that comfort me while i lonely during at night ( Overnight at my place,Squeezing on same bed ) .  We did whatever couple did, expect rolling on bed.

Thank you Karl wish you all the best in Australia . Thanks you for being part of my greatest memory in my life.